Monday, May 11, 2015

Traveling to Zhengzhou and Meeting Jade

From Beijing we boarded the bullet train to Zhengzhou (pronounced Jeng-joe), this was a good way to see some of the country in three hours.  The train traveled at speeds up to 307 kmh (190 mph) with six stops before ours.  The guide gave us a note with each stop listed so we could check them off in order and be prepared - the train stops for less than five minutes at each station.  The boarding passengers were semi-patiently waiting in line for the departing passengers to clear the way.  We made sure we had our luggage together and got off as quickly as we could.   

There was a lot of agriculture in the areas between the cities.  It was difficult to tell what was being grown but looked like mainly grains and potatoes.  Much of the work appears to be done manually, we saw few, if any, farm implements.  There were very few residences outside the cities.  Every city we passed through or stopped in had multiple large construction projects underway - usually apartment buildings. 

Zhengzhou had several large building sites using cranes and a great deal of infrastructure work (mainly roads) being done.  From the train station it was a 30-minute van ride to the hotel.  We stayed in the Zhengzhou Hilton which is beautiful.  The morning after we arrived we met the guide in the lobby at 9:00 AM to travel to the Henan province governmental office that handles adoptions.  Arriving at the office, there were a total of nine families from multiple adoption agencies there to receive their children.  It was incredible watching the children and families meeting for the first time.  There were many tears of joy, a couple of the children cried and needed to be comforted. 
The train station
 

The Zhengzhou Hilton




The orphanage official

We were told Jade would be a little later due to the distance she was traveling to meet us.  As we were sitting and watching the other families get to know one another, Heather turned to her right and saw Jade walking toward us.  She was wearing an outfit that we had sent to her in a care package and carrying a pink backpack.  The nanny spoke in Mandarin using the words 'ba ba' and 'ma ma' and she walked up to us.  They explained that she had been car sick on the trip so would need to be changed.    She was very shy and timid (this has since changed) but pulled out the photo album we had sent her and named each of us as we turned the pages. We were amazed at her willingness to sit with us. There were no tears. We asked her orphanage official if she cried when they left that morning and the official said no.   It was only a matter of minutes until she was sitting on Danielle's lap and they were coloring together. We passed a ball around. She is fearless and brave and smart.  After all the children had arrived and met their families, we headed back to the hotel to bond and love on our children for the remainder of the day. 
The registration office
 

Some of Jade's physical needs are greater than we anticipated - from the spina bifida she is incontinent and wears diapers -  but her walking is far better than we expected.  We are confident that with some additional care and therapy both of these will be improved.  She warmed up to us very quickly and we have had few communication problems, even with the language barrier. 

The next morning we met the guide in the lobby and went back to the same office.  After our paperwork was reviewed, we were asked a few questions:
if we still wanted to adopt the child and would we care for the child, then had a short ceremony placing Jade into our family.  This happened fairly quickly as there were only two Bethany families in our province.  We then headed back to the hotel to meet our car headed to the city where the orphanage was located.  The orphanage visit will be the next post.          






Friday, May 8, 2015

Beijing Tour

Where to start?...we have been unable to connect to Google until today in Guangzhou. We have had a wonderful time in China. Danielle has been a trooper. Actually there are four other "kids" who have come with their parents. We have nine families in our group. We spent the first three days with the families sightseeing in Beijing. Then, we all went to our respective provinces to get our children. Now we are in Guangzhou, where the US Consulate is located, to receive our children's visas to come home.

While in Beijing, we visited the Great Wall, the Forbidden City, the Birds Nest (from the Olympics), a Cloisonné Factory, Tiananmen Square, took a rickshaw ride to the old Beijing area, had lunch in a Hu tong, and participated in a tea ceremony. Then, we headed to Henan Province to receive Jade. No wonder I'm tired.

Jade is beautiful. Her special needs are a little more complicated than we thought, but we are blessed with good medical care in the USA, so she is really going to thrive. She is funny, smart and already hugging and kissing us. She speaks Mandarin and loves to yell at her baba (daddy) when he tickles her. She rattles on and we just crack up wondering what she is saying. One of our Chinese waitresses asked Jade if she likes her new mama and baba and she said "very much". Our hearts melted. Jade especially loves Danielle. The feeling is mutual.  The two of them walk hand in hand wherever we go. We attract a lot of attention... white, English speaking parents with a Chinese little girl. We get stared at to the point of being uncomfortable. Aron is very good at smiling, and saying "ni how" to those who are curious. He has drug us all over the place. Only once did he feel a little afraid. We went down an alley of street vendors where locals buy their food. We were quite the spectacle. Fortunately, people are kind all over the world and so we are happy to mingle with the masses.